growlbadkitty: sutblr: dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts: Curious Friday, in reverse. For this week’s…

growlbadkitty:

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dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts:

Curious Friday, in reverse.

For this week’s Curious Friday I would like to know which advice – only one – you deam the most important to give to any debuting person into our community.

As always anonymous answers are allowed.

@dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts , that there is a community and you are not an island.. reach out.

“I used to think I was the strangest person in the world but then I thought there are so many people in the world, there must be someone just like me who feels bizarre and flawed in the same ways I do. I would imagine her, and imagine that she must be out there thinking of me, too. Well, I hope that if you are out there and read this and know that, yes, it’s true I’m here, and I’m just as strange as you.”

~Frida Kahlo. 💋❤️

If they’ve already decided, then I would say:

People define categories, not the other way around. You can still be a domme and enjoy receiving a good spanking. You can still be a sub and hate collars. Everyone is an individual human. … and for most of us, kinksters are sex nerds and, with nerds, you can’t fit in if you’re trying to fit in. Be into what you’re into and enjoy that others are able to do the same.