minasbitch: So it has been one week into permanent chastity and…

minasbitch:

So it has been one week into permanent chastity and there have been so many thoughts running through my head! There have been so many questions, comments, congratulations, and also a general concern about what must be my mandatory MRI that people assume I will need. Thanks for the outpouring of support! 🙂

I thought I would share a bit more about our relationship and how that works with the permanent chastity. There is a general question I get a lot of;

“If you are permanently locked how will your keyholder control you?”

In a typical keyheld relationship the control is exerted through the key. So if this were the case then it would kill the relationship dynamic. E.g. If you do this I will let you out and give you a ruined orgasm. We are married and in a Master slave dynamic relationship. So she asserts control in anyway she deems fit. Sometimes through rewards, sometimes through punishments. So although it was sometimes fun for her to hold the key over me it was not integral to our interaction and never her style anyways. One of her favorite things, reveling and laughing at me in a predicament, she can definitely still enjoy as it is one hell of a predicament!

So how does permanent chastity work for the MS dynamic?

Being in chastity keeps me in a submissive, slave headspace. Normally when I would orgasm I lose the headspace, get sub drop, be depressed, and not be nice in general. Then it takes a couple of weeks for all the chemicals in the brain to build back up and then I am back in the right headspace that she wants.

So she has decided that I will not orgasm anymore.

From my perspective what is scary is that as I get deeper into the submissive headspace and the more of a slave/painslut I become, that eventually there would normally be an orgasm and a release. Now when that thought is crossing through my head, I realize there is no escape or release by orgasm of these submissive feelings. Which of course just sends me deeper into the slave mindset.

I have never felt more connected and happy in our MS lifestyle than I have since we made the chastity device permanent!

Congratulations!

Permanent chastity isn’t for me IRL but wow it is a very hot idea!

A few of my favorite things about chastity.

teasememylove:

1.      The
constant ache of desire.  
I literally ache for My Love.  She is on my mind 95% of the time.

2.      The dripping.  I
love the precum leakage.  It turns me on
having constant wet spots.  

3.      Lack of control.  Having no control of my orgasms has been a huge turn on,
knowing she has all of the power over “her toy”

4.      The chastity
cage.  
The cage itself is a turn on. Seeing her toy locked up, not allowed an erection.

5.      Teasing.  I love how she teases.  At any time, she could reach over and rub me,
sending my head in a whirl.

6.      Denial.  This is a love/hate one.  I do not like being denied during a play
session, but after I have calmed down, I thank her for not allowing me to cum.

7.      The open
communication.
   We have grown so much closer since starting
chastity.  We communicate better, in everyday
normal life, and in the bedroom.

Why I make My sub a sandwich…

dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts:

malesubimagery:

In a very thought provoking conversation it came up with a Top friend of Mine who went basically off the rails on Me when I mentioned that I had made a sandwich for pet the next day.

His reaction in My mind was hilarious (and I am paraphrasing his words) “How DARE you make your boy a sandwich, You are not to do things like that for him! He should be making you sandwiches and everything else you want!”

Thankfully we were on two sides of screens and he couldn’t see Me when I spit out My tea because I was laughing too hard.

And I told him, what I am telling you, the reason WHY I had the audacity to make My sub a sandwich.

Tomorrow will be My first day off work, and his second day on. We work opposite schedules so we have weeks where we see little of one another, So this allows him 10 more minutes in bed with Me in the morning with Me if his lunch is made. On days I work and he is off, he makes Me dinner. I will be the first one to admit, that a sandwich really is maxing out My cooking capacity and he is the one who cooks in this house. So when I can make him something, I know he’ll eat and enjoy, it makes it worth while. I made him a sandwich because I knew that he’d appreciate the thought, tell Me I’m awesome (which he did), tell Me he loves Me (which he did) and that tomorrow at work when he eats said sandwich, he’ll most likely do it again. I made him a sandwich, because I love him, care for him and really if I didn’t the bread would go bad.
And really, the long short of it, I made him the God-Dammed Sandwich, because I wanted to.

A must read.

simmer-until: My wife just gave me several ruins, with the last…

simmer-until:

My wife just gave me several ruins, with the last one spilling over untouched. Then a massive mental orgasm came upon me. I had so much stored up that I gave out one single spurt, and my brain just went into a panic if seemed.

I needed a climax, so my excitement carried me over as she hovered her hand away from touching me.

She’s been ignoring my glans for over three weeks now. It tingles and I’m desperate for some attention there. But all she gives me is a few fingers on my frenum to bring me to the edge.

I’d adore a good firm stroking like this. Even if she ruins me. I’m a bit jealous.

I’m to the point where I’m not even fully hard and I’m feeling like I’m about to spill over. I can’t take even the slightest bit of attention without swooning.

She’s completely owning me now.

She locked me back up in chastity and I immediately got an erection with the tight base ring. It’s almost in protest. But really I’m not “sated” by several spills and a touchless climax.

I need more. I want more. I am always hungry and she tells me that’s good for me. She keeps me healthy and happy.

I’m so wrapped up in her..

simmer-until: Spilled One Pearly Drop“Is it ok that you spilled a little bit? It was just one…

simmer-until:

Spilled One Pearly Drop

“Is it ok that you spilled a little bit? It was just one pearly drop.”

I was reeling from her gentle but electric edges. My cock was rock hard but my mind was knackered from such intensity. She was taunting me.

I nodded that it was ok. Suddenly my mind leaped up and I held her hand. I found my voice.

“Do you want me to cum?” I was both hopeful and feeling generous. As if I was denying her.

Her adorable cheeks bunched up in a smile as her head shook.

“No. You don’t have to cum.”

She enjoys me like this.

“I should record all the noises you make, and create an aria from them. You’re like a wine-glass.”

She circled her fingertip around in mid air, as if she were playing a harmonium.

I swooned and she laughed at my reaction.

She swung me around and spooned me, holding me closely and proclaimed

“Mine!”

cplteasedenial: mountainsubmission: Had an interesting…

cplteasedenial:

mountainsubmission:

Had an interesting experience last night. While eating dinner and watching TV; e is usually naked, collared and caged. Last night I asked him to remove his cage for some playful teasing. I was playing with his beautiful cock and when I got bored with his desperation I instructed him to touch himself, to test his submission and self control with edging even after 21 days of no spills, ruins or orgasms.

He paused, stared at me and looked paralyzed until I nodded that it was permissible to touch. In that moment I realized my true ownership. When he looked at me with such bewilderment and surprise It was revealed how much he has submitted to my control over his dick and orgasms; I was dripping between my thighs from the display of my power over him.

It was as if we both realized in that moment that this part of his body, something that has always been his personal pleasure tool was no longer his. It it MY toy and under MY control. Was a beautiful display along our loving and interesting journey.

Great story! It’s fun to see how e has grown under your Mistress K’s living mother care in the last few months.

simmer-until: She’s finally embraced my chastity and denial…

simmer-until:

She’s finally embraced my chastity and denial fully in the past year. It’s moved beyond acceptance to enthusiasm. I’m incredibly grateful but nervous. She tells me I don’t have a choice. She’s keeping me hers.

On the chastity front, her rule is for me to be unlocked for morning coffee and cuddles. She wants me fully bathed, and served her naked and clean. This gives her full access and complete control. So I’m not in chastity 24/7, but more like 23/7. It also relieves her to see that I am kept completely healthy. She also loves the massive leverage she has over me. She gets the rush of power as the gentlest words and touches generates huge reactions from my mind and body. I can’t hide from her anymore.

She’s treating chastity as a “treat” for me. A reminder of her embrace and constant grip. I’m kept. 💝🔐