minasbitch: So it has been one week into permanent chastity and…

minasbitch:

So it has been one week into permanent chastity and there have been so many thoughts running through my head! There have been so many questions, comments, congratulations, and also a general concern about what must be my mandatory MRI that people assume I will need. Thanks for the outpouring of support! 🙂

I thought I would share a bit more about our relationship and how that works with the permanent chastity. There is a general question I get a lot of;

“If you are permanently locked how will your keyholder control you?”

In a typical keyheld relationship the control is exerted through the key. So if this were the case then it would kill the relationship dynamic. E.g. If you do this I will let you out and give you a ruined orgasm. We are married and in a Master slave dynamic relationship. So she asserts control in anyway she deems fit. Sometimes through rewards, sometimes through punishments. So although it was sometimes fun for her to hold the key over me it was not integral to our interaction and never her style anyways. One of her favorite things, reveling and laughing at me in a predicament, she can definitely still enjoy as it is one hell of a predicament!

So how does permanent chastity work for the MS dynamic?

Being in chastity keeps me in a submissive, slave headspace. Normally when I would orgasm I lose the headspace, get sub drop, be depressed, and not be nice in general. Then it takes a couple of weeks for all the chemicals in the brain to build back up and then I am back in the right headspace that she wants.

So she has decided that I will not orgasm anymore.

From my perspective what is scary is that as I get deeper into the submissive headspace and the more of a slave/painslut I become, that eventually there would normally be an orgasm and a release. Now when that thought is crossing through my head, I realize there is no escape or release by orgasm of these submissive feelings. Which of course just sends me deeper into the slave mindset.

I have never felt more connected and happy in our MS lifestyle than I have since we made the chastity device permanent!

Congratulations!

Permanent chastity isn’t for me IRL but wow it is a very hot idea!

A few of my favorite things about chastity.

teasememylove:

1.      The
constant ache of desire.  
I literally ache for My Love.  She is on my mind 95% of the time.

2.      The dripping.  I
love the precum leakage.  It turns me on
having constant wet spots.  

3.      Lack of control.  Having no control of my orgasms has been a huge turn on,
knowing she has all of the power over “her toy”

4.      The chastity
cage.  
The cage itself is a turn on. Seeing her toy locked up, not allowed an erection.

5.      Teasing.  I love how she teases.  At any time, she could reach over and rub me,
sending my head in a whirl.

6.      Denial.  This is a love/hate one.  I do not like being denied during a play
session, but after I have calmed down, I thank her for not allowing me to cum.

7.      The open
communication.
   We have grown so much closer since starting
chastity.  We communicate better, in everyday
normal life, and in the bedroom.

Why I make My sub a sandwich…

dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts:

malesubimagery:

In a very thought provoking conversation it came up with a Top friend of Mine who went basically off the rails on Me when I mentioned that I had made a sandwich for pet the next day.

His reaction in My mind was hilarious (and I am paraphrasing his words) “How DARE you make your boy a sandwich, You are not to do things like that for him! He should be making you sandwiches and everything else you want!”

Thankfully we were on two sides of screens and he couldn’t see Me when I spit out My tea because I was laughing too hard.

And I told him, what I am telling you, the reason WHY I had the audacity to make My sub a sandwich.

Tomorrow will be My first day off work, and his second day on. We work opposite schedules so we have weeks where we see little of one another, So this allows him 10 more minutes in bed with Me in the morning with Me if his lunch is made. On days I work and he is off, he makes Me dinner. I will be the first one to admit, that a sandwich really is maxing out My cooking capacity and he is the one who cooks in this house. So when I can make him something, I know he’ll eat and enjoy, it makes it worth while. I made him a sandwich because I knew that he’d appreciate the thought, tell Me I’m awesome (which he did), tell Me he loves Me (which he did) and that tomorrow at work when he eats said sandwich, he’ll most likely do it again. I made him a sandwich, because I love him, care for him and really if I didn’t the bread would go bad.
And really, the long short of it, I made him the God-Dammed Sandwich, because I wanted to.

A must read.

simmer-until: My wife just gave me several ruins, with the last…

simmer-until:

My wife just gave me several ruins, with the last one spilling over untouched. Then a massive mental orgasm came upon me. I had so much stored up that I gave out one single spurt, and my brain just went into a panic if seemed.

I needed a climax, so my excitement carried me over as she hovered her hand away from touching me.

She’s been ignoring my glans for over three weeks now. It tingles and I’m desperate for some attention there. But all she gives me is a few fingers on my frenum to bring me to the edge.

I’d adore a good firm stroking like this. Even if she ruins me. I’m a bit jealous.

I’m to the point where I’m not even fully hard and I’m feeling like I’m about to spill over. I can’t take even the slightest bit of attention without swooning.

She’s completely owning me now.

She locked me back up in chastity and I immediately got an erection with the tight base ring. It’s almost in protest. But really I’m not “sated” by several spills and a touchless climax.

I need more. I want more. I am always hungry and she tells me that’s good for me. She keeps me healthy and happy.

I’m so wrapped up in her..

simmer-until: Spilled One Pearly Drop“Is it ok that you spilled a little bit? It was just one…

simmer-until:

Spilled One Pearly Drop

“Is it ok that you spilled a little bit? It was just one pearly drop.”

I was reeling from her gentle but electric edges. My cock was rock hard but my mind was knackered from such intensity. She was taunting me.

I nodded that it was ok. Suddenly my mind leaped up and I held her hand. I found my voice.

“Do you want me to cum?” I was both hopeful and feeling generous. As if I was denying her.

Her adorable cheeks bunched up in a smile as her head shook.

“No. You don’t have to cum.”

She enjoys me like this.

“I should record all the noises you make, and create an aria from them. You’re like a wine-glass.”

She circled her fingertip around in mid air, as if she were playing a harmonium.

I swooned and she laughed at my reaction.

She swung me around and spooned me, holding me closely and proclaimed

“Mine!”

cplteasedenial: mountainsubmission: Had an interesting…

cplteasedenial:

mountainsubmission:

Had an interesting experience last night. While eating dinner and watching TV; e is usually naked, collared and caged. Last night I asked him to remove his cage for some playful teasing. I was playing with his beautiful cock and when I got bored with his desperation I instructed him to touch himself, to test his submission and self control with edging even after 21 days of no spills, ruins or orgasms.

He paused, stared at me and looked paralyzed until I nodded that it was permissible to touch. In that moment I realized my true ownership. When he looked at me with such bewilderment and surprise It was revealed how much he has submitted to my control over his dick and orgasms; I was dripping between my thighs from the display of my power over him.

It was as if we both realized in that moment that this part of his body, something that has always been his personal pleasure tool was no longer his. It it MY toy and under MY control. Was a beautiful display along our loving and interesting journey.

Great story! It’s fun to see how e has grown under your Mistress K’s living mother care in the last few months.

simmer-until: She’s finally embraced my chastity and denial…

simmer-until:

She’s finally embraced my chastity and denial fully in the past year. It’s moved beyond acceptance to enthusiasm. I’m incredibly grateful but nervous. She tells me I don’t have a choice. She’s keeping me hers.

On the chastity front, her rule is for me to be unlocked for morning coffee and cuddles. She wants me fully bathed, and served her naked and clean. This gives her full access and complete control. So I’m not in chastity 24/7, but more like 23/7. It also relieves her to see that I am kept completely healthy. She also loves the massive leverage she has over me. She gets the rush of power as the gentlest words and touches generates huge reactions from my mind and body. I can’t hide from her anymore.

She’s treating chastity as a “treat” for me. A reminder of her embrace and constant grip. I’m kept. ??

cplteasedenial: Not Ever Again? Last night we played around…

cplteasedenial:

Not Ever Again?

Last night we played around and it was all about Suzy. I had the privilege of licking her pussy and making her cum. Afterwards she went immediately to sleep, leaving her dick dripping and swollen in its cage, not having been touched the whole evening. I stayed awake and composed an email thanking her for all she does to keep me teased and denied. She has really grown in her role as key holder for her dick in the last year. She realized that it is not cruel to withhold pleasure from me because that is what I seek.

When one is horny and hasn’t cum in weeks one tends to get a little crazy. I told her that since she was previously able to keep me 84 days without a full orgasm she could probably deny me full relief indefinitely. Indefinitely! I also told her that if I ever changed my mind and started wanting to cum at times of my choosing – I only ejaculate when she dictates – she would refuse to relinquish control.

Her dick was painfully hard in its confining cage as I composed that message. I basically asked her to not let me cum ever again. When I sent her that message I was a dripping ball of lust. Now I can’t take that back…

Thursday, August 17, 2017, 32 days since last cum.

simmer-until: handdom: Milking Him Until He Leaks Cum I adored…

simmer-until:

handdom:

Milking Him Until He Leaks Cum

I adored watching this. I think I may have stroked, edged and cum to this video years ago. Now I just watch in jealousy. Video porn doesn’t have the appeal it used to, now that I no longer masturbate.

It’s funny. I will quickly scroll past images of men stroking themselves now. But this. Unffff.

This gets me. A large girthy cock, helpless. And a woman’s beautiful smile at the level of her control.

simmer-until: She told me “I’ve got you” and that she’d hold me…

simmer-until:

She told me “I’ve got you” and that she’d hold me together if I start cracking up. She tells me “Hush. Don’t cry” in such sweet tones.

I offered her permanent control over my orgasms, edging and masturbation 69 days ago. She was touched and accepted. She’s taking good care of me. But whenever she touches me, I realize how completely dependent on her I am now. And it has amplified everything.

Congratulations to both of you!

thehypnobunny: simmer-until: I haven’t masturbated to porn…

thehypnobunny:

simmer-until:

I haven’t masturbated to porn since August 20th, 2014.

At the time, she had got me pierced. I was fitted with custom steel chastity (Contender). I was stretching up to 4 gauge for PA security. Making my fantasies reality were well underway.

I was angry at her. I felt sullen. I was unlocked and had stomped off to bed early, and started to wank to porn because I was upset.

Three days prior she was a dream. Three days prior she had edged me and oddly had me orgasm without ejaculating. I was confused, running my hands across my belly trying to find where I had spilled. Then she wrapped her lips tenuously around my heavy ball PA ring and cock and drained me completely. At the time I felt it was one of the best orgasms I had had in my life.

So how did I get so out of kilter in just three days. I don’t remember.

But I was going to take my focus away from her, and cum to porn. Because I was upset.

I didn’t cum by my hand that night. I didn’t even get to the edge. Something stopped me. A sweet gentle persona in my mind convinced me that this isn’t what I wanted.

That was really the night I chose to give her all my pleasure. That was the last time I’ve masturbated alone with conscious intent to orgasm.

That was the last time I felt like I wanted to cum without her.

She came to my bedside and gave me a hug. She crawled under the covers. Fortunately I had let go of my anger, and my cock. I was full of tense energy but I was still wanting.

She brought me to the edge very quickly and I was so grateful when she had me cum. She forgave me for being sullen. She took care of me.

The next month we blossomed. She was teasing me talking openly about chastity like she never had before.

“I should put you back in that cage. You were more well mannered in it. You’re infatuated with your penis, narcissistic.” she accused me as she held me down on the couch.

Soon I received the Contender with its new 4 gauge PA hook and I was locked and kept by her. There were no pullouts. No escape. My heart raced. It was finally real.

I wore chastity to work for a few days, and finally made it a week without unlocking that Fall of 2014.

Maybe I should be celebrating the approach of that 1000 day milestone in 45 days. I should celebrate that active decision to be good. And in my fantasies she’ll let me be orgasm-free until then and I will reach that magic three months of orgasm denial. And I could profess my adoration and deep desire to never orgasm or even masturbate without her again, ever. Kept for her, and only her, forever.

This is so sweet ? I wish you two the best ?

Poured out

simmer-until:

Yesterday morning she was kissing my face all over as I held her hand. I felt so loved. As her lips pressed into my cheeks and lips and forehead, I started pouring out.

I poured out over two weeks of pent up frustration from daily teasing. It was a beautiful ruin. I couldn’t feel a single spurt or twitch. Neither of us watched it. But the volume of cum spilling over was immense. I felt the pool spread across my skin and soaking the cotton sheets.

No orgasm was taken from me to diminish my desire for her.

My last had been eighteen days ago, when she had me inside her for a quickie. Her pretense was so I could fit easier in the chastity she was about to lock me into. She’s so cute.

I am truly grateful for the ruin. Giddy even. I’m still hard and responsive. Maybe a little punch drunk.

She kept toying with my body. She appreciated my eager erection, still there to tease and toy with. She found me jumpy as she tested my nipples reactivity.

“This happens when you spill but don’t cum.” she stated with satisfaction over gathering her scientific evidence.

Then she brought out her vibrator and came for me as I watched. I squeaked in sympathy as her orgasm spread over her face. When she was done she smiled at me, self-satisfied.

She spoke to me before-hand. (Before no hands??)

“You’re a nice boy.” (Swoon!)
“You’re infinitely bite-able.”
I gave her a wide eyed look of concern. She’s really turning into a natural predator to my nervous prey. I’m only half joking that I’m worried that I’m getting what I’ve wished for.

“I’ll take care of you”
I need to hear this. She cradles me protectively.

She had been holding my balls possessively. She has firm and confident grip.
“Yours” I offered. “Yes” she accepted.


Now that I’m poured out, I’m not brimming with surface tension. I’m still wanting and feeling very much owned and devoted to her.

I still yearn. I crave this feeling and she’s let me keep it.

Well damn!

I’ve never heard of a ruined orgasm being transcending like that! I am in awe.

Starting a third week of blissful denial

simmer-until:

I’m starting my third week of denial. It’s been 15 days since her fingertip slowly coaxed a little spill from my frenum. She’s teased and denied me every day for two weeks now.

I was already pretty deep in sweet service submission when I brought her coffee in bed. She was sleepy, so I focused on being warm and friendly. I tried to keep my mind off my arousal. We snoozed in calm comfort – my head below hers, resting on her arm, and nuzzling her round breasts.

Her gentle hand about my throat.
Her thumb pressed into its vulnerable center with meaning.
I melted and whimpered.

“How’d you get to be such a small bunny?”
“I gave you my throat.”

She continued to slowly cycle her hands over my quivering flesh.

“Thank you for giving me your throat.”

She grabbed my balls possessively and squeezed.
I cherished feeling owned. She made my shaft taut and I felt I could spill at any moment.
I stammered at her until she calmly told me to speak.

“I gave you those too.”
She smiled at this.
“Oh really?” She teased.

She turned me over and bared my bottom.
She spanked my ass… and continued spanking for no reason at all.

She had me sit cross legged next to her. I danced and shifted as my skin stung against the sheets.

“Poor thing. You were spanked for no reason. …
That wasn’t a hard spanking, was it?
No? No. Maybe next time.”

With those words and her smile, i lost all ability to stay upright. I melted into her for support.

She calmed me and held me for a while.

She motioned for me to get up so we could drink the coffee. She glanced down at my ankle.

“That’s quite a wet spot!”

I had a silver dollar sized puddle, slick with precum, shining in the morning light. She is proud at how much I drip over her. She takes it as affirmation that she’s treating me right.

“You can’t help it, you’re a boy.”
“I’m your boy.”

She hugged me tightly and swatted me to go get out clothes on and be respectable.

This speaks to all parts of me! Wow!

wifeincharge-and-lockedhubby: No release needed… this cock…

wifeincharge-and-lockedhubby:

No release needed… this cock stays locked until my beautiful wife needs it ?

It’s been over three weeks since my last orgasm, with teasing nearly everyday. Last night my love let me inside her. She rubbed her clit and teased me until she came ? then told me to lock back up. “Maybe tomorrow…” She said, like she’s has everyday for the last few weeks.

I love me wife ❤?
-him

magnetandsteel18: marquiseoftease: THIS is so so true. And…

magnetandsteel18:

marquiseoftease:

THIS is so so true. And it’s also the reason why “hey stranger, I wannabe your slave” requests are ridiculous.

Just because one person shares one specific kink with you, it doesn’t make them an ideal life partner. Trust me, it doesn’t even make them an ideal short term fling.

A D/s relationship built on trust goes so much deeper than a single “session” will ever get. It also goes deeper than a vanilla relationship because you don’t hold back, you are open and vulnerable. This is the case for both the dominant and the submissive.

Itrequires a good amount of “transitional thinking” to make a glossy porn pic fantasy a reality and accepting said reality isn’t quite as glossy as the imagination.
Pain actually hurts, strict bondage might cause limbs to go numb, standing in ballet boots or kneeling gets very uncomfortable after a while etc.
It also requires some analytical skills to figure out what worked and what didn’t, without getting frustrated over it.

Love can help over this frustration, while a purely transactional relationship (pro domme, or “you be the slave I be the dominant” without any emotional bond) isn’t equipped to deal with disappointment.

Equally, loving and trusting someone so much that you can be completely open about your desires, is a wonderful place to be.

I wish for all my followers to find this person to share and live their kinks with ❤

Exactly – it’s no different than ‘nilla relationships or any relationship for that matter