Craving The Cage


I’ve been locked in chastity for 84 of the last 101 days. I truly crave the feeling now. I kissed her sweetly and thanked her for choosing to lock me in my snuggest little Contender cage. This was after a few intense edges for me, and a slow touch-less pouring out. It was a perfect ruin that kept me rock hard. I watched myself spill several seconds after her last touch. Her hand was gently squeezing my balls as she spooned me. We struggled to get me back into my cage. The tight cage audibly popped over my bulging glans. It took a while for my shaft to relax and get half soft so she could press fit the cage and fasten it to the tight base ring. But she looked so pleased with herself afterwards.

She was impressed. She was literally glowing at her own skills and general awesomeness. She was doing a cute little smug dance after I was all caged up. She says that tease and denial keeps me “happy”, and my hard edges and orgasm-less spills keep me “healthy”.

One of my mentors doesn’t like chastity belts because she wants that continual submission that chastity devices take away, and my thought was “… but it’s hot!”

As I read @simmer-until I realize that if you accept that there are safewords, that continual submission can come easier yet in some ways is more profound.

“Earlier this week you had complained that it felt like…

“Earlier this week you had complained that it felt like your cock was going to burst through the cage and I said I’d help with that this weekend. Now that you’re helpless, I might as well tell you: My planned “help” was going to be punishment for complaining but as I look back on the week I realize that maybe you were just worried? After all, you’ve otherwise been not only been good but have exceeded my expectations. I’m very happy with you, and I certainly don’t want you to have any troubling doubts. If you’re concerned, I want you to feel free to come to me about anythying, knowing we’ll work it out together!

“So, rather than punish you, we’re going make absolutely sure that any fears of bursting through your cage are completely put to rest. Today, you’re going to tell me what gets your cock absolutely rock hard, and over the next week or two we’ll prove to you that your cock is absolutely safe and secure.”

minasbitch: So it has been one week into permanent chastity and…


So it has been one week into permanent chastity and there have been so many thoughts running through my head! There have been so many questions, comments, congratulations, and also a general concern about what must be my mandatory MRI that people assume I will need. Thanks for the outpouring of support! 🙂

I thought I would share a bit more about our relationship and how that works with the permanent chastity. There is a general question I get a lot of;

“If you are permanently locked how will your keyholder control you?”

In a typical keyheld relationship the control is exerted through the key. So if this were the case then it would kill the relationship dynamic. E.g. If you do this I will let you out and give you a ruined orgasm. We are married and in a Master slave dynamic relationship. So she asserts control in anyway she deems fit. Sometimes through rewards, sometimes through punishments. So although it was sometimes fun for her to hold the key over me it was not integral to our interaction and never her style anyways. One of her favorite things, reveling and laughing at me in a predicament, she can definitely still enjoy as it is one hell of a predicament!

So how does permanent chastity work for the MS dynamic?

Being in chastity keeps me in a submissive, slave headspace. Normally when I would orgasm I lose the headspace, get sub drop, be depressed, and not be nice in general. Then it takes a couple of weeks for all the chemicals in the brain to build back up and then I am back in the right headspace that she wants.

So she has decided that I will not orgasm anymore.

From my perspective what is scary is that as I get deeper into the submissive headspace and the more of a slave/painslut I become, that eventually there would normally be an orgasm and a release. Now when that thought is crossing through my head, I realize there is no escape or release by orgasm of these submissive feelings. Which of course just sends me deeper into the slave mindset.

I have never felt more connected and happy in our MS lifestyle than I have since we made the chastity device permanent!


Permanent chastity isn’t for me IRL but wow it is a very hot idea!

The precum, the twitching, the smell of a desperately aroused…

The precum, the twitching, the smell of a desperately aroused cock, the moans… they drove her wild. Slowly teasing him was one of her favorite ways to relax, except she had to keep control of herself or else he’d cum too quickly. She never let him know it but she never let him cum on purpose, and it felt delightfully wicked to feel his anticipation and hope surge and fall in waves when even she didn’t know when he’d cum.

That was months ago. Now that they have a chastity belt that he’s adjusted to, and she is finally liberated. She can get just all the precum, twitching, smell of a desperately aroused cock, and moans she likes, for as long as she likes, all without having to hold back, without having to think and watch him to prevent letting him cum too soon, even when she firmly presses her tongue against the exposed slit and licks back and forth for much longer than he can stand.

simmer-until: My wife just gave me several ruins, with the last…


My wife just gave me several ruins, with the last one spilling over untouched. Then a massive mental orgasm came upon me. I had so much stored up that I gave out one single spurt, and my brain just went into a panic if seemed.

I needed a climax, so my excitement carried me over as she hovered her hand away from touching me.

She’s been ignoring my glans for over three weeks now. It tingles and I’m desperate for some attention there. But all she gives me is a few fingers on my frenum to bring me to the edge.

I’d adore a good firm stroking like this. Even if she ruins me. I’m a bit jealous.

I’m to the point where I’m not even fully hard and I’m feeling like I’m about to spill over. I can’t take even the slightest bit of attention without swooning.

She’s completely owning me now.

She locked me back up in chastity and I immediately got an erection with the tight base ring. It’s almost in protest. But really I’m not “sated” by several spills and a touchless climax.

I need more. I want more. I am always hungry and she tells me that’s good for me. She keeps me healthy and happy.

I’m so wrapped up in her..

irc-slut: As soon as I saw this, my first thought was “if I…


As soon as I saw this, my first thought was “if I keep him locked up long enough, will he become a better kisser? I really like kisses more than a man’s dick.”